I defiantly do support this new world of communication, establishing friends on line, meeting people, staying in touch with your existing friend and family, getting over certain fears and so on.
Many companies know how to use this new technologies into their advantige and communicate with people through virtual world. Such as Gap creating a custum fitting room in the Virtual World so that the custumers can tryout new products, see exectly how it fits them and be able to immidialy purchase it over the web. This is a great benefit for Gap, because it allows comments from the custumers and it enchances sales over the internet. Alo different architeture firms can create and avatar to check out interaction of people in the project that they are designing. This is all great and I highly support it.
But the thing is that we only look at the positive side of this. I am sorry for ruining this illusion of ideal world in Virtual Life, but this is not real!! Yes, it is great to play with it, to enhance communication but if we were to look at the statistics-real statistic that show to how many people did this actually benefit it would probably be far less than what we are being introduce to.
People can easily get lost in this world, and loose perceptions in reality. Yes they might join in desire to loose free of social restrains and practice their interaction with people through this world, and it might help them. But imagine how many people get carried away, and just waste hours and hours trying to do so in this illusion, instead of going into the real world! Imagine how many frauds there might be, how much crime, maniacs and weird people is actually out there. This comes to be like a free lend for those freaks that are limited in the real world and are free to do what ever they like in their Second Life, don't you think this is bit dangerous?? Imagine naive teenagers, or just lonely people that are looking for any kind of attention..well imagine the trouble that they can get into.
I like the quote from the "I've been in that club, just not in real life" in which Clayton Patterson a photographer of Manhattan said: “It’s the complete denial of your space, a complete theft of what it was that you lived in for years.” referring to a virtually created world in one of the avatars, in Manhattan that holds neighborhood's trendy places.
I believe that real life, as dangerous and challenging as it is, should stay real and present, because it is hard enough to make our living in the real world and imagine what would it take to do a double job in Second Life and get carried away and loose perceptions of reality.